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Tall girls
can gain confidence through sport.
Abby Frank is fairly modest,
even conservative in her appearance.
So imagine the Park Tudor high school senior's surprise when she was
called out for wearing a short skirt before playing in the school's
orchestra concert.
Indecent exposure was not her intention. It's just that Frank is 6-4 with
a 37-inch inseam. Fitting her frame is problematic to say the least.
"Yes, occasionally my skirts are short," chuckled Frank, who tries to find
skirts that flair out or buy a larger size and use a belt. "I just have to
angle away from the audience I guess."
Where once a teenage girl Frank's size might have found embarrassment, she
laughs. Tall girls are finding their size-15 shoes more comfortable than
ever these days . . . in no small part because they're often sneakers.
Frank may have to tuck her legs away as not to tarnish the prestige of
Park Tudor's orchestra, but she gladly exposes them on a stage where size
matters: as a member of the school's volleyball and basketball teams.
"People pay attention when I walk into the gym; I just love that," Frank
said. "It's where I feel most comfortable."
There are at least nine female athletes in the Indianapolis area who are
6-3 or taller. It includes members of the 16U national basketball team,
and girls who have led their volleyball teams up the state -- and national
-- rankings. Most have secured Division I scholarships.
Each will tell you her story of the impact of sports on helping her
embrace her height, but Lindsey Blom, assistant professor of sports
psychology at Ball State University, said first it must be acknowledged
that society, including high school peers, is becoming more accepting and
even more respectful of tall, athletic girls.
"In the past, women used to be stereotyped as too masculine if they looked
too athletic, tall, or strong, and now I think that both men and women are
less judgmental of these characteristics in a woman," Blom said.
That, combined with the confidence these tall girls gain on the court has
created an invaluable combination.
"We, as humans, feel more confident when we experience success," Blom
said. "So if young, tall and athletic girls are getting positive attention
-- which may come in the form of attention from the coach about how to
learn the sport, media attention, or encouragement from their parents --
they are more likely to try activities, take risks and value their role in
the sport, which helps them feel successful and confident."
Shelbi Chandler -- a 6-3 post player for Pike's basketball team -- knows
how much her sport has helped her accept and now value her size.
"If you're not comfortable with who you are," said Chandler, who has
signed with the University of Cincinnati, "then you can't advance to the
next level. I didn't start getting comfortable with my height and my body
until this year and now I'm like, what's up? I look good. I'm good with
what I've got."
Chandler has been doing more workouts and admits she has better strength
and gets down the court faster. And she has what everyone else wants:
height.
"In basketball you have the biggest advantage with being tall," she said.
"That's the best part."
Still, if you've never walked in the aforementioned size-15 tennis shoes,
one can never know what it's really like to be a tall girl. Chandler was
approaching 6-0 by the end of grade school. The boys hadn't hit their
growth spurts yet and wearing larger shoes and longer pants than everyone
else can turn the tallest girl into a shrinking violet.
For Chandler -- "The other day someone actually asked me how the weather
was up there," she said -- self-acceptance was an evolutionary process
with elementary school her most trying time. She really started to grow in
the third grade.
"I'll never forget one day we had recess," she said.
"I always wanted to play basketball. The boys picked me up, but they just
wanted me to stand there and put my hands up. My feelings were hurt. I
thought they wanted me to play."
That she can recall this memory so clearly is a testament to how painful
the ridicules can be. Eventually she found a way to deal with it.
"I'd just say, 'Look, I'm big, I get it, now shut up,' " Chandler laughed.
"I had my days where I was called to the principal's office."
Frank leaned on her friends. Going to the same school since kindergarten,
there were rarely new faces to amaze with her stature. Still, Frank's
eighth-grade year was difficult. She grew a staggering five inches, from
5-10 to 6-3.
"Everyone was so shocked," she recalls. "I don't really remember noticing
it. I just remember I was starving all the time and by the end of the year
my parents had to buy me a new wardrobe."
Brooke Kranda was a towering 6-5 volleyball player by her sophomore year
at Westfield and more than familiar with the growing pains of being a tall
girl, literally.
"I had a problem with my knees," said Kranda, who is committed to Michigan
State to play volleyball after high school. "Growing so fast and not
developing enough muscle, my knees weren't supported."
A trainer advised she work harder to develop her leg muscles to compensate
and all was well.
Though no studies have been done on whether the number of tall girls is
increasing, and the average height of girls and women has only risen an
inch in the past 50 years, it's likely girls' increased willingness to
embrace athletics -- and, perhaps more importantly, vice versa -- has
raised the visibility of these athletes.
"I believe girls are starting to focus on sports sooner or at an earlier
age and therefore becoming stronger and faster sooner," said Pike girls
basketball coach Bob Anglea. "Also, women athletes are starting to train
from a physical aspect much earlier to compete at the highest levels."
For some, the image of these girls has never changed.
"(My parents) have been good about telling me I'm beautiful," said Frank,
whose parents are both taller than 6-0. "And there's nothing worse than a
tall girl who slouches."
Frank will always struggle with finding shoes that fit and skirts that
disappear when she sits, but she'll never struggle with who she is |